You meet this amazing couple at an FNO event during CocktailRumpus. They are digging you and you are really into them. The night progresses to ClubRumpus and she dances with you “belly-rubbing” style. You make plans to meet outside of the club for drinks and who knows. And then she reads your vanilla Facebook posts. “And there's one more girl you won't be getting.”

A little over a year ago, after being divorced for a number of years, and tired of the endless drama associated with traditional eHarmony and match.com on-line dating, I decided to dip my toe back into the lifestyle again.