Your Adventure Awaits
The Lifestyle is more than just swinging. There are so many sub-communities within the larger population. We cater to several. So whatever your interest, we probably have an event to satisfy.
Come Explore a
different Lifestyle experience.
Bring Your Own Bottle
All events are BYOB establishments. We have mixers! Put your name on your bottle and put it on the table.
Please Drink responsibly.
Venue
The venue where we hold our events is NOT a dedicated Lifestyle facility. We rent the space from a Lifestyle-friendly business in Aurora, Illinois
Dress to Impress
There are many events with themes but you are not required to participate (but it’s fun). We do ask that if you not in theme, please dress to impress.
LS Latino es un grupo dirigido a nuestros amigos hispanos en el mundo del estilo de vida liberal, PERO no es necesario ser latino para asistir. Estas fiestas son increíbles. Mela trae a uno de los mejores DJs de la zona para que la fiesta no pare, y la comida que sirve es auténtica y deliciosa.
¡Reserva el primer sábado de cada mes en tu calendario y ven a la fiesta!
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LS Latino is a group catering to our hispanic friends in the Lifestyle, HOWEVER you don’t have to be Latino to attend. These parties are hot. Mela brings one of the area’s best DJs to keep the party going and the food she serves is authentic and out of this world delicious.
Set your calendar for the 1st Saturday of the month and come Fiesta!
Couples
Couples are welcome at all time. We also define couples as two men or two women. Choose “Couple” when making your donation
Throuples
Throuples are defined as one man and two women or one woman and two men. The rule is all three must arrive together and leave together.
Single Women
Single Women are welcome at most events. We allow the 1st five into FNO events for free. We then charge half the couple rate.
Single Men
We have events where single men are welcome. Note, there are some events where you will need an escort to go upstairs to the WildRumpus Room
You may have run into K. Willard at various events or have seen him on Kasidie or Fet Life. Did you know he also throws some of the most well attended events in the area?
The Interracial Lifestyle Party is where couples, single women and men come for interracial play. And boy do they play. The WildRumpus Room at the Barn is always hot when he throws his parties on the 2nd Saturday of the month. Come to play or watch, you move at your own speed and do what is comfortable for you.
What to Wear
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Clubwear for Women
Here is our curated list of looks we like and perhaps you will find your look in these offerings.
Clubwear for Men
Here is our curated list of looks we like and perhaps you will find your look in these offerings.
WildRumpus Wear
Here is our curated list of looks we like and perhaps you will find your look in these offerings.
Come out and play.
For years, she been the one behind the scenes; curating the magic while everyone else indulged.
Now? She has assembled the perfect team… and it’s finally her turn to play.
The night begins with connection —icebreakers, darts, listening or dancing to seductive music — and then the energy rises.
Oh and she has a dedicated Sybian room for the ladies to help get you in the mood. This isn’t just a party.
This is Penny’s WildRide.
Let the WildRumpus start!
We call them the FNO Regulators and they host those enjoy the Hotwife Lifestyle and all the sexy fun that goes with it.
“We regulate the sexual needs of hotwives. We're damn good too. But you can't be any geek off the street. You gotta be handy with the steel, if you know what I mean. Regulators, mount up.”
These are men of all races that were hand chosen to satisfy. Meet them downstairs at The Barn. Get to know them, and if you both are comfortable with them, invite them upstairs. Just remember, their consent is in place also, so if they pleasantly decline, don’t take offense. Just move on the next FNO Regulator until you find one that clicks for the both of you. When you find that connection, go upstairs and…
Let the WildRumpus start!
Be a guest host at one of our Friday events. You pick your friends, the theme and the music. FNO will do the rest.
In order to participate, you must have a Lifestyle Facebook account, at least one paid lifestyle site (We recommend Kasidie), and be able to bring at least 10 couples to your event. FNO will provide the food and mixers. We will also promote your party to all of our members so you get a chance to make new friends!
So you have been chatting with a couple, single lady or gentleman online and your want to finally meet to see if there is a spark. Grab a ticket and bring them to the FNO Meet & Greet as your guest.
The Barn’s pub-like atmosphere is perfect to get to know each other. If things go just right, go upstairs to the WildRumpus Room and explore. We set up the space for privacy at this event.
Some also use this event as a way to schedule more intimate play at their homes. Or just have a swapping makeout session in one of our premium chairs. So many options to make it a special night.
We turn The Barn into a Dungeon and we have two amazing Masters to guide you on your BDSM journey. Whether you are brand spanking (see what we did there) or BDSM veterans, this is the night for you.
BDSM is a broad term for a variety of sexual preferences and behaviors. It involves consensual activities that include elements of bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, sadism, or masochism. If you don’t know what you are doing, you could hurt someone. So let our Masters instruct you.
If you know what you are doing and need space for your scene, we got you.
Now we are new to providing this kind of entertainment so feel free to bring your own tools and equipment.
You are interested in the Lifestyle but don’t know where to start. Join us for this fun night where veterans of this amazing community are here to answer your questions and provide advice in a NON-THREATENING environment.
Your hosts are planning 4 lectures, one for each event, on the do’s and don’ts of the lifestyle as well as some tips on navigating the sometimes choppy waters of Swinging.
You never have to do anything you don’t want to do. Just show up with an open mind. It’s probably not at all what you expect.
We are really excited about this event. We are constantly asked to arrange gang bangs. But we are FNO and we have to do things differently. We call The Queen’s Choice and here’s how it works.
We set up The Barn with 4 private play areas. We then offer 4 couples tickets. Single ladies must bring a safety person and grab a couples ticket. We ask that you supply a photo taken from behind (no face). We post that anonymous photo on your event page and sell tickets to single gentlemen. Now comes the different part.
At the party, the Queen’s partner is given 13 cards of the same suit. During the cocktail period, gentlemen should make the best effort to get to know each Queen. If the Queen finds him a worthy playmate, she instructs her partner to give him a card. This is his entry pass to paradise. When WildRumpus is announced, the Queen retires to her chamber and is entertained only by those who have received her card.
So lucky guy may get all four cards others may get none. It all depends on how well you communicate and impress our Queens.
Those who do not receive cards will receive a portion of their donation back as a refund.
Let the games begin!
After months of planning and searching. We are pleased to announce BoysTown West, a place for Bi Men and Women. We have chosen 8 Fridays in 2026 just for you. Your host is the amazing Miss Lisa. And she is amazing. Need to talk? She's there to listen. Need a hug? No safer place with your head in her bosom.
The night is yours. Any males there are assumed at least bi. Gay men and Trans friends are also welcome.
So spread the word. Aurora and Miss Lisa are ready for you.
Out Pay What You Can parties are just that. There is no set fee. The Lifestyle can be expensive. And some of the sexiest people are on the sidelines due to family financial obligations. YOU DESERVE A PARTY. We are going to give you one.
So grab that sexy club outfit and don’t forget your naughty lingerie for WildRumpus and let’s play.