Friends Night Out is a members-only lifestyle club. We host intimate events in the Chicago Metro Area. At FNO, we specialize in connecting you with friends you know and friends you WILL know.

Four Brands | Four Nights | One Location

Unlimited Lifestyle Fun


  • FNO's Saturday Night Out

    Saturday is for lovers! On this night we welcome couples, and throuples for an enchanting Lifestyle experience. This is why we limit our capacity to 75 guests. Take the opportunity to get to know your new friend in an intimate setting.

    Doors open at 8 pm and lock at 11 pm. Absolutely no entry after our doors are locked. Lastly the event is BYOB and light appetizers are served.

    This event is open to all FNO members over 21 years old.

    Single males and females are not allowed.

    You must RSVP to attend and have a ticket number to enter the venue.

  • FNO's Young Couples Night Out

    On the 1st and 3rd Friday of the month we offer FNO’s Young Couples Night Out. This is why we limit our capacity to 75 guests. Take the opportunity to get to know your new friend in an intimate setting.

    Doors open at 8 pm and lock at 10 pm. This event open to FNO members under 45 years old.

    Absolutely no entry after our doors are locked. Lastly the event is BYOB and light appetizers are served.

    Single males must be FNO Certified and under 45 years old.

    On-premises play is permitted.
    You must RSVP to attend and have a ticket number to enter the venue.

  • FNO's Angels Night Out

    On the 2nd and 4th Friday of the month, we celebrate members of the FNO Angel Program. These are our incredible spokesmodels and you get to party with them and show your support.

    We limit our capacity to 75 guests. Take the opportunity to get to know your new friend in an intimate setting.

    Doors open at 8pm and lock at 10 pm.

    Absolutely no entry after our doors are locked. Lastly the event is BYOB and light appetizers are served.

    This event is open to all FNO members over 21 years old.

    Single males must be FNO Certified.

    On-premises play is permitted.
    You must RSVP to attend and have a ticket number to enter the venue.

  • FNO's Thursday Night Out

    Join us for our fun BYOB Meet & Greet. Doors open at 7 pm and is open to all FNO members. Check the event for the night’s activities like Bingo, Karaoke and games.

    FNO members can book and use the upstairs photography studio for free, a $75/hr value.

    Single males do not have to be FNO Certified.

    This event is open to all FNO Members over 21 years old.

    On-premises play is NOT permitted.
    You must RSVP to attend.

Frequently Asked

  • FNO is a member-based club. All fees collected at events are considered donations for the continued operations of the club.

    FNO has contracted with a marketing and event management agency to promote and manage on its behalf. FRIENDS NIGHT OUT operates at zero profit.

  • Breaking these rules will get you removed and your membership revoked!

    • You must be 21 or over.

    • NO MEANS NO! Don’t touch without asking permission. This goes for men and women.

    • Leave your drama at outside the door. Discuss your rules BEFORE you get the event. If you are a disruption, Security will ask you to leave.

    • Don’t drink too much. Over intoxication causing unruly and disrespectful behavior will get you removed by security and your membership suspended for 90 days.

    • If you RSVP “At the Door” please make every effort to show up. We invest in you being there. Consistent no shows will get a warning first. There will be no second warning. You will be removed from the Membership. Do yourself a favor and just donate online. It’s easier and less expensive.

  • FNO does not require a membership fee to be a member. Unlike other clubs, we believe this fee is a unnecessary money grab no matter what they tell you it’s for. If they tell you it’s for a background check, ask them for a copy of what they found. If they can’t or won’t give it to you, they are ripping you off.

    When you donate for an event, those are considered your membership participation dues. You can participate as little or as much as you like. We always offer an early bird period for each event when tickets are less expensive.

    You must be 21 or over to attend a Friends Night Out event.

  • FNO does not have a dress code. However, we do ask that you dress to impress. Our events usually have two (2) wardrobe changes depending on location.

    AT THE FNO CLUBHOUSE

    ClubRumpus: Theme from 8pm to 11pm. Depending on the night, we may have contest for best look.

    If you are not dressing in the theme (that’s perfectly fine), please dress to impress. Gentlemen, before you leave the house, take a look at your partner. If you didn’t know her, would she be interested in you based on your look? if not, go change. Check out Amazon for inexpensive and fun looks.

    WildRumpus: Around 11pm the ladies like to use our dedicated dressing room to change into lingerie. Men, you can do the same. Consider getting some silky pajamas. This really turns up the sexy!

    A word on dress codes overall. There was a time that dress codes were used to keep certain members of the population out of events and venues. Read the list of prohibited wear. Then think about who they are talking about. It’s insulting.

    OTHER VENUES

    Check that particular event for the ideas on what to wear. At meet & greets, nudity is not accepted.

  • Single men must be FNO Certified to attend any FNO event. The certification process takes up to 30 days to complete. All FNO members will review your application. You must score at least a 70% to become a FNO Certified Gentleman (FCG). If approved you must attend at least four (4) events within one year from your acceptance.

    Lastly, we only allow five (5) FCGs per event unless otherwise noted on the event.

    To become an FCG, tap here for the application.

  • Do I have to be a "Swinger"?

    Absolutely NOT! Think of our events as night club for sexy mature people that would feel out of place at a bar or club full of 20-somethings.

    Consenting, adult play is never a criteria to attend. FNO offers events where you can do as you like, without judgement. What happens “upstairs” is nobody’s business but your own.

    Why don't you publish who's coming?

    We can’t reveal our list for privacy reasons. People will put themselves on lists in the private Facebook group or various lifestyle sites where we advertise. That is their choice.

    As for only coming if you know someone, FNO is about friends you know and friends you WILL know. Our hosts and staff can introduce you to anyone you are interested in. This is what makes FNO a different lifestyle experience.

    Why do you allow Selfies?

    Our members love to document their experiences. The rule is, only take a photo where there is no one behind you. Best location is against a wall. If you are “Upstairs”, NEVER pull out your phone under any circumstance. This will get you immediately removed and banned for not just our club, but all the clubs we are friends with. This is a small community.

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